Love dating and marriage Review: Ethics and Etiquette in the CD of this wonderful Love Dating and Marriage meeting with Pastor Kingsley. Welcome to the official page of Love, Dating and Marriage Ministry founded by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo. To order resources, please visit our website. The latest Tweets from kingsley okonkwo (@kingsleypst). Senior Pastor at David's Christian Centre. Host of Love, Dating & Marriage (LDM) which airs every Sunday pm on STV.
Love dating and marriage by pastor kingsley - 7 Qualities Wise Men Want
You need respect, so earn it by being responsible. I know it all. Ladies check your domestic scorecard, if your score is Zero, please stay in your parents house. Whenever you are considering divorce it is because of the hardness of your heart, and it not because of the offence of the spouse but the remedy is taking Heed to your spirit… As a Christian Please note Matthew Divorce has nothing to do with the wrong done to you but with your inability to obey GOD's word - hardness of heart.
There are no grounds that makes divorce the best option. A soft answer stops beating Prov Love keeps no record of wrongs. This means the issue of last year is forgotten.
The issue of last week isn't kept. True love never fails. It is better to end the courtship than to end up in court trying to end the marriage. But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home, and to requite their parents: Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day. But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth. And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless.
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man. But the younger widows refuse: Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith.
And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan. If any man or woman that believeth have widows, let them relieve them, and let not the church be charged; that it may relieve them that are widows indeed. This scripture has nothing to do with marriage, it was talking about widows.
This scripture has nothing to do with husbands providing for their family. Marriage is a partnership. So provision should be mutual. Money earned by the two of you, irrespective of who is bringing in more belongs to you both.
As a family, you should have visions and goals in terms of finances. The basic understanding is, money, wherever it is coming in from either from the man or the woman, should be used to fuel those goals. This could mean at times, the man bends his financial needs so his wife can get something or the woman bends her financial needs so her husband gets something all for the betterment and progress of the family. Marriage is not an association or just a union, it is a covenant.
If both parties are willing to be covenant minded and put the principles of God above all, then they can enjoy a good marriage. Ensure that he is hard working. He believes that you are rolling in money so his intention is to help you plan how to spend your money. If he is not doing well on his own, he will not do well when he is with you.
If he is into business and the business is not moving, wait for the business to move before you marry. Otherwise, tendencies are that business will not move after marriage and that is because he will keep depending on you to invest in the business before anything substantial can come out of it.
Be careful not to be too quick to start throwing money around especially if the man is not at a place in his finances where he can stand by himself. If you start giving him money now, and the man is not hard working, you are fueling his drive to depend on you.
Make sure he is hard working. Yes, he might not be rich yet, but you must see that he is taking steps to becoming better, you must see fruits that he is truly committed to putting in efforts to get himself a better life.
Look out for maturity and intelligence. Watch out for a man who is always blaming people, a man who never takes responsibility for his decisions. He is still at a point where he still believes someone should help him or the world owes him something. Also, ensure he is intelligent.
You might be more educated and have higher qualifications but is he intelligent?? Can he carry on a normal conversation? Can you learn from him? Intelligence is not a gift.
It is not about academics, not everyone is gifted academically but everyone can be intelligent, because intelligence is not about going to school; intelligence is about development. Has she helped those who are in trouble? Has she always been ready to do good? A woman that can take care of people and is friendly. Remember she will be the one running the home and raising your children.
A woman that can learn new things. Marry a whole woman. Not a woman that is hurting or has low self esteem or one still holding unto a bad experience. A hurting person will hurt other people. She must have dealt with her issues first. Been healed totally by God and has let the Spirit of God help her. In marriage there is nothing that can take the place of trust. A gracious woman will retain her honor. She should have no integrity issues. You should be able to take her words. Without trust you have nothing.
One who lives a pure and holy life. Self control and integrity are important before and after marriage. Work on the trust issues.
When she is RICHER, OLDER and SMARTER… Relationship message by Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo :
A woman that can learn new things. For me, I was inspired by the way Pastor Kingsley condensed a bit complex theme into very simple truth. Make sure he can handle the fact that you earn more. Some men, however believe that they can extend this command outside of their home.
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