JustMyTypeMag - A fresh perspective on relationships, love and dating. Reading the post made me wonder, do married men act this way because they feel that Back in the day, I used to work in the event and party promotion business. ridden assholes after snorting lines of coke, I've seen married men disrespect any. “It was back when we were first dating,” Annie continued, “remember we went to “And he was a married man, but it didn't stop him,” Annie insisted gently. Her snort turned into a full chuckle as she realized something wonderfully amazing. Except, when it happened to me – when I was told, “Your husband's had a thing” – I found I didn't want to know. Not at all. married?” he snorted and laughed at the very notion. But back to my friend with the unfaithful wife.
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They will accept you, love you and you'll take the girls out for manicures and the boys out to Star War movies and it will be rainbows and unicorns forevermore.
His ex will hate you, probably forever, but really, that won't affect your life. It's not like you will ever need to see her.
I mean, sure, she'll be in your life forever, because she's the mother of your partner's kids, but it won't affect you much. Except for at every birthday party, school event, medical emergency, graduation, engagement, wedding, birth of grandchildren, etcetera for the rest of all of your lives. If your partner is rich, you'll have a very nice lifestyle once you move in together. Unless, of course, he loses most of his assets in the divorce settlement, which is likely if his ex keeps the kids.
But you'd love him for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, so that doesn't really matter to you at all. His friends will be horribly conflicted, and most will side with his ex, but that's a good thing! You guys will be able to focus more on your set of friends. Your partner might miss his friendship circle, but clearly they weren't true friends if they deserted him, so he'll get over it and move on.
Remember that there will be lots of pressure on you to compensate for the fact that your partner left his wife for you. Every time you have a fight, every time he feels low, every time his kids leave to go back to their mum's, he may look at you and wonder what the hell he's done.
But you can cope with that. Is it worth abandoning something of substance for something that is a frivolous, transient massaging of ego? Hearing that he had been unfaithful once infected all our preceding years together and left me sore, raw and smarting until a long time later. In fact, knowing added precisely nothing. But nor is it uncommon: And is it worth throwing five, 10, 15 years away when infidelity may amount to a momentary lapse in concentration?
All balls, no brains? Is it worth abandoning something of substance for something that may mean nothing, that is a frivolous, transient massaging of ego? Later, much later, when I was able to rationalise all of this, when I realised that a brief lapse did not amount to him falling out of love with me, did not mean there was anything wrong with me, I was able to compute it all: A night, or two, of foolishness versus the significance of shared years, the partnership of parenthood, the joys, the grief through which we had supported each other, good times and sad that were privately ours.
But back to my friend with the unfaithful wife. The response to a specific instance is very different. Best not get involved, says one. Are you absolutely certain, asks another. How well do you know them both, says a third. Any drug will cause addiction. All i need to do is take care of our blessing, our home and go to school. Whether pot is a scapegoat for stress and fear of upcoming responsiblities is not the issue. Besides, i knew the bag of groceries when i bought it..
I did not smoke pot that often but did drink quite a bit. He even went to a rehab a couple of times, but never stayed long enough or really wanted help, he only went to get me off his back about his problems.
Finally at that night on a school night a cop knocked on the door. He may not admit it, but if he is lying about it, than he definately does need help, before it is too late. Ask him why he felt like he needed to do it behind your back.
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He's telling you how he feels, just like your telling him how you feel. You know he can gaslight. Men and women bat the dilemma back and forth. Your love will heal his wounds.
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